well u need to realize that speak now was the taylor a few years ago.she is a women now her hair make up cloths and music are going to change it comes with life..are you the same person you were in middle school must likely not. u may have some things u still like to do that u did in middle school but u need to let her grow up to a nice woman while she is a sweet young lady right now, people need to look at the postive side of taylor and that is she just wants to be a young women like the rest of us and change her style looks or music when she wants cos thats the way she feels